Please forward this newsletter to anyone interested in Attention Deficit Disorder.
Distributed by Mincu & Associates
January, 2005

In this Issue:

HANDLING THE 'DOGS'
Routine Tasks that Never Get Done

11 TELEPHONE CLASSES - 2 THIS WEEK!
On Adult ADD Challenges

Coaching Products & Services

NEW YORK CITY Announcements
and Subscription Management

Website: www.thrivewithADD.com


BONNIE MINCU
Personal and Business Coach
for ADD - AD/HD Adults


HANDLING THE 'DOGS'
Routine Tasks that Never Get Done

First of all, this column is not about dogs of the canine variety. I'm using the phrase "dogs" in the sense of "dog days," referring to dull, routine, uninspiring tasks. Your "dogs" are the day-to- day necessities that aren't interesting, but are necessary to you or your business's survival. We ADDers have the most trouble getting started and following through on these dog tasks. As the new year begins, wouldn't it be great to handle those dogs with a fresh approach?

What Are Your Dogs?

The kind of tasks that you consider dogs are those that are tedious to YOU. Another person may consider your dogs exciting, or a motivating ritual.

Has last year's passion become this year's dog?

People with ADD tend to get easily excited by new things, but then become bored quickly. As a beginning copywriter in her first advertising job, Barbara was excited to be assigned a trade ad to write for a fastener company. But after a year of gaining experience writing radio and newspaper advertising, a trade ad of this type was a "dog" for her. She still had to approach it with her best effort, even though it no longer excited her.

Dog tasks may be dogs because they're dull and easy, OR because they're tedious and difficult.

Andre faced two dogs at home. One was the project of creating and installing shelves for the garage. Andre had done enough renovation work to find this simple; he put it off because it was boring to him.

Andre's second dog involved his promise to set up a new home computer system. Andre avoided this task because he knew it would require hours of reading the manual and trying to figure out the technology - it was challenging, but something he did NOT enjoy.

Andre's daughter, Claire, on the other hand, had a knack for technology. She would enjoy setting up the PC, so it would not be a dog for her.

How to Handle Your Dogs

Have you been waiting for a sudden burst of motivation to handle your dogs? This may work for a once-in-a-while dog. But what about dogs with deadlines, a promise to someone else, or an obligation to a client? The toughest dogs are open-ended projects, where there's no definite deadline to drive you to action.

1. Create a deadline
If you don't have a real deadline, make one up. Create a serious commitment to yourself to have the project complete by deadline.

2. Break the task into steps
Creating a list of steps allows you to gain a sense of completion as you finish each one. Assign a deadline for each step, working back from the main deadline.

Don't forget to include pre-steps! Andre's garage shelves required measuring the space and taking inventory of what had to go on the shelves, BEFORE he cut the wood.

3. Schedule "DOG TIME"
Here is the key to your strategy. Create a routine in your schedule of certain hours that you assign to your dog tasks. Since these tasks are tedious, you shouldn't go beyond your attention span without taking a break.

Think about how you'd work best when assigning your dog time. Options to consider are:

  • What's the best time of day for dull, routine work
  • How will you avoid interruptions
  • What environment would be best for the task (home, office, café, music or silence, etc.)
  • Should you schedule a variety or single task at a time

4. Determine critical factors for focus and task completion:

INTERRUPTIONS
If your success depends on not being distracted by email, phone or people, commit to unplugging the phone, staying off email, and informing others that you need this hour to stay focused.

LOCATION
If you get distracted at home by your own thoughts, see if you can do the task away from home. Many people with ADD concentrate best in cafes, train stations and doctor's offices!

DELEGATION
Is there any part of the task that can be delegated? Perhaps something that takes you an hour to do could be done by a colleague or family member in five minutes.

FOCUS
Try music, TV or background noise to stay focused. (I've always found "Law and Order" to be good background stimulation, since it doesn't require that I look at the TV set.)

STIMULATION
Set a timer for a short period of time and keep focused just until the timer goes off.

Or, for several dog tasks, create a "circuit" of 10 minutes each, where you'll jump from one task to another. Using a timer, see how many tasks you can finish in an hour. (Note: This approach is best for tasks that don't require high mental concentration!)

How to Make Dog-Handling a Habit

It will become easier to handle your dogs as you do it more often.

AUTOMATIC SCHEDULING
Consider automatically scheduling "dog time" into your calendar. Daily, weekly, or monthly... whatever works best for your dogs.

RITUAL TO CHECK CALENDAR
Make it a nightly and/or morning ritual to check your calendar and take steps to ensure quality dog time.

ASSIGN SPECIFIC TASKS
Each week, assign specific tasks to your dog time schedule. Avoid ever starting dog time without a clear sense of purpose.

Once you get into a regular habit of working dog time efficiently, you'll see your Great Danes become Chihuahuas!


11 TELEPHONE CLASSES
for Adult ADD CHALLENGES
'Will Your Christmas Tree
Still be Up in July?' Overview of ADD

DATE: Tuesday, January 18

TIME: 7:00 OR 9:00 PM Eastern Time
Your Choice!
PLACE: At home on the phone

COST: FREE

Thrive with ADD kicks off 2005 with 11 teleclasses! They're all at 9:00PM Eastern time, 90 minutes long.

Audio recording and notes included with every class.

Mark your calendars and REGISTER through www.thrivewithadd.com.

Telephone Class Schedule

WILL YOUR CHRISTMAS TREE STILL BE UP IN JULY?:
Overview of Adult ADD

Tuesday, January 18 - FREE

RELATIONSHIPS and ADD - Part 2:
Avoid Friction and Frustration

Thursday, January 20 - $20

GETTING STARTED:
Move Beyond Procrastination

Tuesday, January 25 - $29

FOLLOWING THROUGH:
From Idea to Completion

Tuesday, February 1 - $29

DEVELOP A TIME SENSE
Get Out of 'ADD Time!'

Wednesday, February 9 - $29

GET UN-STUCK with MIND-MAPPING
For Planning, Writing and Study

Tuesday, February 15 - $29

ADD and WORK
Thriving in Organizations

Wednesday, February 23 - $29

ENTREPRENEURSHIP and ADD
Potential and Pitfalls

Wednesday, March 2 - $29

RELATIONSHIPS and ADD - Part 1
Class 1 of 2

Wednesday, March 9 - $29

RELATIONSHIPS and ADD - Part 1
Class 2 of 2

Thursday, March 17 - $29

CREATING RITUALS
The Key to New Habits

Wednesday, March 9 - $29

Click here for REGISTRATION and DETAILS.


THE KEY TO SELF-COACHING


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'THRIVE WITH ADD' helps you develop personal strategies to work with your ADD traits instead of fighting against them. 'This audio workshop will help you really understand yourself, and help your loved ones understand you.' Bonnie Mincu, ADD Coach

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FROM IDEA
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GOOD INTENTIONS DON'T COUNT If You Can't Follow Through!

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  • Ways to discern whether roadblocks require abandoning the project or simply tweaking the strategy.
  • When it makes sense to 'go with your gut,' and when it's necessary to slow down and test your assumptions.
  • How to keep perfectionism from paralyzing your progress.
  • How to develop a time sense so you can create a realistic timetable and action plan.
  • Ways to delegate aspects of your project without losing control of it.
  • How managing expectations of others can provide a built-in mechanism for feedback.
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